Chhayal Bharambe
Confidence & Life CoachHelping you operate at full authenticity
I Am On Mission To Help 100000 Ambitious Women Confidence Using 6D Expression Model…
Because, I Don’t Want Any Women To Feel Small And Powerless, EVER!
This space is created to connect with you who know what world you are capable of and willing to work on it.
I truly believe the journey of healing and growth is more important than where it takes you.
I’ve developed a way to guide you through releasing stuck emotions and building the confidence you deserve, so you can feel free and empowered in your life.
But before we start, presenting my story how I got here…
Early Years Of Life
This story begins in 2001. When I was two years old, my mom told me the neighborhood people liked me a lot because I was a charming kid who would sing and dance even at that age. In primary school, I consistently topped the class and received prizes in extracurricular activities. Being part of the choir, I was always fond of the stage. I didn’t realize that the art and science were both engraved in my personality, forming the roots of my confidence and identity. My first dream was to be a dancer, and my second was to be an astronaut, but that dream faded quickly.
Cultural Conditioning Begins
As I transitioned from childhood to puberty, I faced the typical cultural conditioning that said, “Girls shouldn’t do this!” Simultaneously, I was going through an unlikely experience as a growing girl. During my primary school years, I was unwillingly subjected to experiences that made me question what was right and wrong. One particularly prominent experience was suffering childhood abuse from someone within my close circle, which led me to question everything. Societal conditioning told me “It was all my fault!” The worst part was when these personal issues became public due to a friend’s immaturity. At the age of 14, I faced character shaming as a girl, making me question about my whole existence! All my close friends, except one, turned against me, forcing a social butterfly like me into the cocoon of darkness. I didn’t just lose my confidence and self-esteem; I lost all my skills along with my identity.
The Weight of Shame
I felt victimized by the societal narrative that “girls shouldn’t do that!” It was as if the victim was blamed for the crime, and the system was already against the victim. My inner child had already suffered from my primary school experiences, but this situation broke me further. I lost myself to the judgments of society. During this time, I disconnected from the world and from art. Expression became non-existent because I was ashamed. I felt small and believed I had no right to express myself because I had made a mistake. My dream of being a dancer was crushed, leaving me with only my love for science. So, I took that up and began preparing for the IIT JEE. For two years, I studied relentlessly from morning to night, building a disciplined approach to learning, but unknowingly suppressing my emotions.
Academic Pursuit
My hyper-discipline era was marked by ignoring my feelings, which were piling up and affecting my mind, resulting in low confidence despite my academic results. I was in a constant state of confusion and overwhelm, and I didn’t have the courage to confront the hurtful feelings I experienced. I felt isolated, as if the world was my enemy, while in reality, I was unknowingly fighting against myself. Although I didn’t crack the IITs, I gained admission to a decent college.
Unexpected Opportunities
I enrolled in electronics and telecommunication engineering, thinking it would bring me closer to my dreams of satellites and space. I studied hard during my first year, believing this was my path and something I had to accept. However, my life took a turn when I joined a cultural group called “Kalaraag,” which focused on arts for university-level competitions. Although I considered myself just a fine artist—a skill passed down from my mom—I thought participating would enhance my resume. Instead, I found myself immersed in a theatre group, where my life began to change.
Theatre and Healing
Participating in a skit titled “Humanity” during my second year stirred emotions within me that I had long suppressed. I didn’t know how to act, but I began to find those emotions and express them through the skit. The improvisational nature of theatre allowed my creativity to flow. When I presented those emotions, receiving applause and praise was shocking and astonishing! Until that point, I had been shamed and silenced. This marked the beginning of my healing journey, supported by seniors who created a safe space for us to be ourselves. Kalaraag wasn’t just a cultural committee; it was a legacy built on the fundamental human right to express oneself!
Reconnecting with Art
As I explored theatre, I delved into fine arts, event management, anchoring, set production, and music production, which gradually improved my personality and confidence. During this time, I discovered mandala art, and trying it out magically boosted my confidence and satisfaction. Being closely connected to art helped me understand the importance of dreaming and imagining, things I had been conditioned to avoid, as a girl’s life was supposed to be predictable.
Pandemic’s Hard Lessons
Despite my growth, I remained unaware of my reality. Even after immersing myself in various activities, I often claimed I wasn’t leadership material, just someone who could support others. After spending four years in engineering college, the COVID-19 pandemic hit us hard in March 2020. Initially, it didn’t seem significant to me, especially since I had a nice IT job lined up. However, the pandemic soon revealed its harsh realities. I lost my maternal grandfather in December and, during the pandemic, my maternal grandmother—our last shelter of love. This loss weighed heavily on my family, especially as my father had lost both of his parents long ago.
Taking Charge Amidst Chaos
One month after my mom lost her mom, our family woke up to take tests due to symptoms, and we were all diagnosed with COVID at the same time. We had to pack our bags and quarantine for 14 days. That experience added another layer of trauma for each family member, as we lived in fear of losing someone again. After quarantine, we returned home, but my dad wasn’t feeling well. He was diagnosed with pneumonia in the peak of COVID. During those two months, I was forced by seriousness of the situation to take charge to protect my family. This experience transformed me into a strong leader, driven by the desire to safeguard my loved ones. Thankfully, my dad recovered, and I started my new job.
Emerging from Survival
Alongside my job, I enrolled in a communication course with Praveen Wadalkar, focusing on improving my communication skills. This intense, practical learning process brought to the surface everything I had suppressed during the pandemic, revisiting my past traumas. Unexpectedly, practicing communication and creating speaking videos daily helped me release emotions while learning new skills, including improving English. My confidence soared as I created at least three videos daily for over six months. I became part of a vibrant community of learners and made friends with similar interests.
Path to Self-Discovery
From the same communication group, one of my friend posted about a yoga retreat in Manali, which intrigued me. He happened to be the brother of Mr. Sumit Upreti, a Cosmic Wellness Coach. First I attended the webinar regarding the same. After attending that webinar hosted by that him—by Sumit sir—I felt compelled to enroll in the retreat. After discovering mandala art, I learned about its spiritual significance, sparking my curiosity about spirituality. Initially knowing little about it, I delved into learning alongside Sumit sir, and the idea of traveling to the Himalayan mountains fueled my passion. I sought to relieve my emotional baggage, but I returned from that retreat with renewed dreams and a sense of my true self. The mountains strengthened me!
Transformative Guidance
Sumit sir shared a profound insight with me that I carry with me for life: “Chhayal, go beyond your past, go beyond your genes, go beyond your karmas. Everyone has the divine potential to do it; if I can do it, you can do it too.” This sentiment marked the another step to my journey. Over the years, I trekked to places like Jalori Pass, Kedarkantha Peak, Chanshal Pass, and Patalsu Peak while learning meditation, yoga, and pranayama. Understanding the importance of looking at bigger picture and staying out of the bubble I created for myself was empowering. This important things were not taught by the education system in my whole life course.
Realizations and Decisions
Meanwhile, I continued my job. As I was slowly emerging from survival mode, I began to realize that this wasn’t my desired lifelong path. Although the company and people were great, it didn’t feel aligned with who I was. My love for science didn’t include coding, and as an Electronics and Telecommunication engineer, I found myself working as a software engineer. I tried to engage in extra activities to stay fulfilled, but my confidence dwindled because I felt disconnected from my work. Despite my attempts to switch positions internally, I faced resistance due to my current role’s promising career growth. I wanted to take the next step but didn’t know how, so I kept working until I got the opportunity to apply for the masters. My constant search of growth made me think that this can be something which can take me to the next level of my life.
Finding New Directions
Triggered by memories of societal conditioning to be the best, I sought paths leading me to the next chapter of my life. In my quest for clarity, I found myself drawn to pursuing a master’s abroad. I envisioned reconnecting with the science I loved while building a career. After applying for master’s programs in Germany, I decided to quit my job. I didn’t realize that this decision would lead to a significant turning point. While waiting for university responses, I interned with Sumit sir as a community management executive, exposing me to the health and coaching industries in-depth.
Embracing Coaching and Healing
Although I initially viewed the internship as a side gig, it felt aligned as I began helping people with their emotional baggage. It was surprising to witness the depth of emotional trauma and how it manifested in various ways. During this process, I learned about cosmic healing, became certified as a Chakra Mandala Pranayama and Naya Yoga practitioner, and gained insights into the complexity of the human experience by learning about human behavior. Even though I didn’t receive a positive response from the university for my desired course, it didn’t matter anymore; I had found my calling!
Claiming My Identity Back
After countless failures, I found meaning in my journey. Despite years of suffering from societal conditioning, I was finally stepping into my power, realizing that I didn’t need to be ashamed anymore. My role became clearer: helping others heal, empowering them to release their emotional burdens and re-establish their identities. It has become my mission to ensure that no woman feels helpless or trapped. Through expressive healing, I’m committed to helping others find their true selves, just as I did.
My Big Vision
I envision a world where women embrace their expressive selves with freedom and confidence, standing tall against gender biases and societal limitations. I see women stepping into their power, embodying strength, courage, and authenticity. This vision isn’t just about today’s women but also about shaping a future generation that is confident, happy, strong, and divinely aligned with their purpose.
Coming from the rich soils of Maharashtra, inspired by the legacies of Rajmata Jijabai, Queen Lakshmibai, Savitribai Phule, and Dr. Anandibai Joshi, I believe stepping into power is a royal act for women. Throughout history, women have risen to challenge societal norms and create lasting change. My vision is to help every woman become an Expressive Naari and transform them into an Empress of Expression. To achieve this, my mission is to empower 100,000 women to express themselves and help them build confidence using my 6D Expression Model in a way that is both engaging and impactful.
My Values & Beliefs
Love and Compassion
I believe love is a powerful, transformative force. It guides everything I do, from my work to my personal interactions. Love drives me to help others heal and find peace within themselves through expressive healing.
Freedom to express and be yourself
I deeply cherish personal and emotional freedom, always seeking to create spaces where people can explore and release their emotions freely. Freedom is at the core of my mission to help women break free from limiting beliefs and emotional burdens.
Being authentic, being happy
I value being true to myself and others, embracing my real emotions, thoughts, and actions. Authenticity is the foundation of my work, as I encourage others to express their true feelings without fear of judgment.
My Vision For You!
My focus is on helping you unlock the confidence that already exists within. By blending spirituality, Human behavior and mindset training, I guide you to break free from limiting beliefs and step into your full power. Through emotional healing and self-discovery, you’ll learn to express yourself authentically and reclaim your voice.
This journey is about you—becoming the strong, confident, and empowered woman you are meant to be.
Dear Naari, Are you ready to take the next step? Click below to join and register for the upcoming webinar!
